Dating a musician support group
When I saw the movie, I started to cry as I watched Ennis, the young cowboy played by Heath Ledger, wed his sweetheart even though he'd been involved with another man. D., estimated that between 1.5 million and 2.9 million American women who have ever been married had a husband who had had sex with another man.That means there are a large number of women who have no idea what their husband does in secret.I didn't think there was anything wrong with being gay — I have an openly gay cousin.And I didn't care what went on behind others' closed doors.This pronouncement made me feel more secure, but I shouldn't have ignored my nagging intuition that something was seriously wrong.After all, what man wouldn't jump into bed with his fiancé.
Then, after he kissed me good-night, he shocked me again, saying, "No matter what you hear, I'm not gay." In fact, I had heard other students say that everyone in his fraternity was gay.He refused, explaining that he respected me too much and that sex had ruined his previous relationships.Frustrated, I kept reminding myself that, as he said, "We will have the rest of our life together." In premarital counseling, we told the minister that divorce didn't fit with our values.We periodically see stories about married men in public life who are gay or have been implicated in homosexual behavior — such as Senator Larry Craig (R–Idaho), who was arrested last summer for allegedly soliciting a male police officer in an airport bathroom, and former New Jersey governor James Mc Greevey, who proclaimed that he was a "gay American" when he announced his resignation from office.While the media focuses on the men, I watch their wives standing next to them and wonder about the suffering, lies, emotional confusion and rage that they may be living through. There are so many obvious questions for a wife like me: Didn't I realize he was gay? And if I had suspicions, why didn't I confront him earlier or divorce him?